A month or so back, I found myself in a gay club dancing with lovely men who made me feel fun, sexy and beautiful, but had absolutely no interest in tempting me away from my domestic haven. I realized my year relationship now-marriage had some predictable sexual patterns, which happens in any long-term relationship. But suddenly, I felt a strong compulsion to break free of those patterns. Could it be turning 50? What makes my husband so incredibly badass is that when I said, "I think I'm having a midlife crisis.
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She rolls over for some immediate relief from the brightness, but as the Sun creeps its way higher and higher through the sky the light intensifies. Soon sunlight fills the room acting as an alarm clock. Eyes open and sheets shuffle as she stumbles lazily out of bed. Her bare feet meet the cold hard wooden floor. She stands up straight as a shadow cast from natural light greets her on the wall in front of her. After a brief pause and a rub in the eyes she makes way to the dresser.
Question: Do you have a bedframe? A silk scarf? A tie?
While the request may have thrown you for a loop, the reality is, playing with domination and submission can be a huge turn-on in the bedroom or, you know, wherever you're getting it on. For the partner being tied up, there's often something incredibly hot about handing over complete control. From the achingly sexy to the hella awkward, here are eight women's tales of what it was like to be tied up in bed for the first time. Needless to say, the following stories are NSFW.