My first time bottoming was a nightmare come to life. I was in pain the entire time, not to mention super self-conscious about my partner being all up in my rear end. If you're not familiar with the term, "bottoming" refers to being on the receiving end of anal sex, meaning the "bottom" is the partner putting the penis or dildo inside of them. The person sticking said penis or dildo inside the bottom is referred to as the "top. How do so many men—gay, bi, and straight—derive pleasure from having a penis or dildo inside of them? Eventually, I had a girlfriend who got me into it.
When I tell you I was shook the first time I got a rim job, I was goddamn shook. Turns out, loads of people are doing it. That's because it can feel incredible to stimulate the nerve endings around the anus, not to mention there's something sexy and "taboo" about the act that turns some people on. All of which is to say, it makes sense that you're curious about how to eat ass. I love eating ass, which is why I do it in nearly every sexual encounter I have. I could live off of eating ass for breakfast, lunch, and dinner until I died.
Literally, I'm referring to the man's most precious posterior pucker, and not figuratively to his piss-poor personality trait. For those of you who get an instant hard-on at the thought of me sucking on your starfish, I should note that I'm not into licking just any person's anus. It's got to be attached to a guy I like, who has recently showered and smells like there's a bar of Irish Spring soap up his ass. The act of analingus, commonly referred to as 'rimming,' or 'tossing the salad,' involves contact between the mouth, lips or tongue of one person, and the anus or perineum space between the ass and genitals of another. It is practiced privately by all sexual orientations and genders, but some still consider it to be taboo, dirty or even homoerotic, so it's rarely discussed openly or admitted to in public.
Last Updated: October 19, References Approved. This article was co-authored by Danny Gordon. With over 20 years of physical training and teaching experience, he has focused his studio on semi-private personal training. There are 23 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page.