Female submission or femsub is an activity or relationship in which a woman consents to submit to the direction of a sexual partner or allows her body to be used sexually by or for the sexual pleasure of her partner. The expression is often associated with BDSM , when the woman voluntarily and consensually submits to such activity. Submission usually involves a degree of trust by the woman in her partner. The dominant partner is usually a man, but can also be another woman, or there can be multiple dominant partners simultaneously. The submissive woman may derive sexual pleasure or emotional gratification from relinquishing to varying degrees control to as well as satisfying a trusted dominant partner. Submission can take the form of passivity or obedience in relation to any aspect of conduct and behavior.
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Being a submissive in your relationship can be misunderstood and many people that only know me away from my husband are often surprised to learn that that he is the dominant one. I have what has been described as an aggressive personality which seems juxtaposed to the dynamic of my chosen romantic relationship. In my eyes, it's special and I do not see it as he is really forcing me to do things. I see it as my submission is my gift to him.