My husband and I do spank each other, but in different ways and for different purposes. I am not sure if that is really switching. His spankings are discipline. Mine are erotic. Spanking was very common in our home, but no yelling.
Funny, nobody ever asked before, what the ladies like to see. Usually all the pics in the net seem to be for the boys. I hardly find anything that makes ME smile. I can't help it, but I do like the male anatomy. I am into spanking, but I still like vanilla. Just because he has to be punished I am not less aroused to see him naked, even when I'm angry. As a matter of fact being in the position to spank him makes his nakedness even more erotic.
I love having a middle-aged person over my knees, so I don't see any need to rush a good spanking. It's not my bottom that's going to sting! I keep giving her strokes with the paddle, all just as hard as the first. With each one she stiffens a little sharper, faster and harder, as she yelps out, then cries out her pained "OW! I give her a couple more until her bottom is fire engine red and Carole is crying hard as she lies over my knees.
My wife of 8 hours stood in the corner of the hotel room, nose firmly pressed into the corner, the hem of her skirt pinned well-up her back. This was evidenced by her trembling, from head to toe her quivering bottom and thighs the overall red color of her full cheeks, the bruises showing on them and the nasty red covering her upper thighs. As I waited and watched, the bruises took on a deeper red color, a more painful deep red, outlined and surrounded by her fair white toned skin. She gave a deep sigh then turned and walked to join me at the chair. After having her turn around I unpinned the dress, unzipped it down the back then pulled it to allow it to fall in a puddle around her ankles.